Sunday, January 27, 2013

Divorce, Divorce, Divorce

In Tajikistan, you can get divorced by saying "Divorce, Divorce, Divorce." However, they made it illegal to say divorce three times in a text message. You now have to do it in person.

We're over honey. Divorce, Divorce, Divorce.

*Edit-I found out that this is an old muslim tradition, and can only be said by the man.




Buzkashi

Buzkashi, or as I call it the crazy headless goat game, is a favorite sport amongst the Central Asia crowd. It also happens to be the national sport of Afghanistan.  If anyone is traveling to any of the -stan countries during winter/spring, I would highly recommend a trip to watch this game.
Before I moved to Tajikistan, I had no idea what Buzkashi was.  I remembered reading about Buzkashi in the book The Kite Runner but as I found that book to be really sad, I tried to block out most things I had read.  So when I arrived, everyone I met told me that Buzkashi is a must see event here. So, if you are interested in reading more about Buzkashi, please read further. 

The Rules- To pick up a dead goat/calf and carry it across the goal line while sitting a top of a horse. I guess it can be played in teams, however the game I saw was an individual contest to pick up the goat and score.   

The Carcass-Usually a goat or a calf that has its legs cut off at the knees, then disemboweled, beheaded, and soaked in cold water for 24 hours before a match. Sometimes sand is placed in the carcass to make it heaver and to keep it from being destroyed during the match.
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Chapandaz-Someone that plays Buzkashi.  They usually wear boots with big heels to help them from falling off the horse.  They will wear shin guards and other protective gear because this game is pretty brutal.  At the game I saw, there were at least 500 people on horse competing for the goat. 

The Prizes-When you cross the line with a goat, you win! Apparently the worst prizes are in the morning.  The man that won the first prize won 50 dollars. As the day goes on, the prizes were better.  The prizes in the evening ranged anywhere from a camel to a horse.  

The Audience-I didn't realize it until someone pointed it out to me, but there were NO women among the audience. There were thousands of people and the only women I saw were from my group, or the few women selling food.  I especially stood out in my pink jacket. 

No Boundaries-There was nothing to separate the field from the audience. There were a few times when the horses would come into the crowd.  You had to jump quickly or you would be trampled to death.  

All in all, it was a truly unique experience. This is the reason I came to teach abroad. I have included some pictures below.

Fighting for the carcass-the steam is from the horses' breath

 Chapandaz getting ready
 Concession Stands
 A little bit of color is a sea of black
The horses are about to go into the audience




Sunday, January 6, 2013

Things that I miss about first world countries

I have been in Germany for the past few weeks and it has been a fantastic trip! I was able to spend some much needed time in a 1st world country and see my amazing family and friends.  I think I needed a break from the Dush. While I was walking around Germany, I decided to think of all the nice things that I miss about living in a first world country.
1. Drinking straight from the tap.
2. Not worrying about having power or heat in my apartment.
3. Knowing that there is a price tag on an item and EVERYONE pays the same thing for this particular item.  The higher "white person" price doesn't exist.
4. Staying out past 8pm.
5. Eating pork (okay this isn't a 1st world vs 3rd world country but it is nice to be a place where I can buy pork since Tajikistan is mostly muslim and they don't eat pork.)
6. Going into a store and having more than one size for an item.
7. Not getting strange looks everywhere I go.

It seemed strange to me at first, but there a few things that I missed about the Dush.
1. The MUCH lower prices of food and clothing in comparison to Germany.
2. The easy, shared taxi system.
3. Honey Lemon Tea.
4. Baklava from Merve
5. My crazy Russian neighbor that I cant understand, but always makes me smile.

Overall, I had a great time in Germany.  I had a fantastic time and of course, would still love to end up teaching and living there one day.